From the time of our earliest childhood encounters with animals, we casually ascribe familiar emotions to them. But scientists have long cautioned against such anthropomorphizing, arguing that it limits our ability to truly comprehend the lives of other creatures. Recently, however, things have begun to shift in the other direction, and anthropologist Barbara J. King is at the forefront of that movement, arguing strenuously that we can—and should—attend to animal emotions. With How Animals Grieve, she draws our attention to the specific case of grief, and relates story after story—from fieldsites, farms, homes, and more—of animals mourning lost companions, mates, or friends.

 

King tells of elephants surrounding their matriarch as she weakens and dies, and, in the following days, attending to her corpse as if holding a vigil. A housecat loses her sister, from whom she's never before been parted, and spends weeks pacing the apartment, wailing plaintively. A baboon loses her daughter to a predator and sinks into grief. In each case, King uses her anthropological training to interpret and try to explain what we see—to help us understand this animal grief properly, as something neither the same as nor wholly different from the human experience of loss.

 

The resulting book is both daring and down-to-earth, strikingly ambitious even as it’s careful to acknowledge the limits of our understanding. Through the moving stories she chronicles and analyzes so beautifully, King brings us closer to the animals with whom we share a planet, and helps us see our own experiences, attachments, and emotions as part of a larger web of life, death, love, and loss.

“Poignant, thoughtful, and sometimes heartbreaking. King once again elevates the discussion of animal emotion. She tackles a tricky subject with a scientist's care and an animal lover's grace.”

"I must admit that I was skeptical that an entire book could be written on the subject of animal grief, because the scientific literature in this area is so painfully thin. But Barbara King has succeeded beautifully. She has collected an incredible database of stories about various kinds of animals, and taken together they offer more than enough substance to sustain this book. It is as if she has created a mosaic for her reader. She has collected bits and pieces--individual stories about one animal or another--which by themselves might be little but trifles. But King pastes them together with masterful skill, and the result is a compelling picture of animal grief. We get the feeling that there are still a lot of blank spaces on the canvas, as our scientific understanding is far from complete, but it is only a matter of time before these spaces will begin to fill in. How Animals Grieve is a fascinating book which will interest and inform animal lovers and scientists alike."

"In this deeply moving and beautifully composed treatise that is sure to anger some, but inspire many, Barbara King methodically presents her powerful evidence that many animals possess thoughts, feelings and emotions, including the profound sense of loss following the death of a family member or close companion. Consider, for example, the female dolphin who carries her dead calf for several days, loath to part with her beloved child. What else is she doing but grieving? It might be a controversial, minority viewpoint that some animals mourn the death of others, but King's profound and well-documented work has left me firmly in her camp."

"A beautifully written book that will appeal to animal lovers."

"King makes a compelling case for the rich and deep emotional lives of other animals."

“Touching and provocative.”

“Makes a powerful case for the presence of love, affection, and grief in animals—from a house cat mourning her lost sister to elephants who pay respects to the bones of their matriarchs.”

“How Animals Grieve . . . collects anecdotal and scientific data on grief in many kinds of animals, even some that most researchers ignore, such as rabbits, goats, and turtles. . . . As King points out in her book, there are enough examples of grief in species as varied as goats, baboons, and gorillas that the emotion may be an experience shared by many species. If so, then it must have an evolutionary history and confer some benefit—that is, it must be advantageous in some way, enabling the mourner to survive long enough to reproduce and pass his or her genes to the next generation.”

“The question that a work like this forces one to ask is, if the loss of a companion through separation or death does cause intense emotional suffering in nonhuman animals, what right have we to inflict that loss upon them? . . . If we have any empathy for nonhuman animals, then we must take seriously their experiences of suffering and grief and do what we can to minimize, or even eliminate, the human activities that cause animals to grieve.”

“A comprehensive synthesis of animal mourning research. . . . King says that over the past few years animal-grief research has ‘exploded’—part of a larger ‘animal turn’ among academics who advocate broadening the range of lives and cultures that are studied.”

“Through stories of creatures that have lost family members or partners, an anthropologist discusses what is known about grief among animals.”

“King attempts to walk the tightrope of scientific rigor while accepting that non-human animals can have emotions. . . . She has written a challenging book that implies big questions about who we are and how we choose to live.”

“King writes convincingly about the capacity of animals to feel. In the introduction alone, we learn that though elephants and chimps are the gold standard when it comes to animal feeling, chickens, goats, bunnies, and ducks have their verklempt moments.”