Contents
Preface
Acknowledgments
Harry’s Journey
Is It Dementia or Just a Normal Part of Aging?
Obtain a Diagnosis
Avoid a Misdiagnosis
Am I Next?
Are You on a Journey?
Finding the Right Physician
The Comprehensive Assessment
What to Tell Your Loved One
Treatment
Clinical Trials
The Progression of Alzheimer’s Disease
The Cure Scam
Beth and Alice’s Journey
Alan and Martha’s Journey
Call a Family Meeting
Hate the Disease, Not the Person
Eyes and Ears
The Best Time to Get Things Done
What about Sex?
Activities
Support Groups for the Caregiver
Support Groups for the Memory Impaired
Living Wills
Advance Health-Care Directive
Power of Attorney for Adults with Dementia
Common Questions about Advance Directives
Do-Not-Resuscitate Orders
HIPAA Authorization
Care Options
Choosing a Facility
Understanding Patient’s Rights
How to Pay for Nursing Home Care
What about Medicare?
What Is Medicaid?
Exempt Assets and Countable Assets
Medicaid Planning for Married Couples
Case Study: Equal Division of Assets
Giving Away Assets
The Medicaid Spend-Down
Trusts
Will I Lose My Home?
Veterans’ Benefits
Home and Community-Based Program
Long-Term Care insurance
Financial Steps
Updating Your Planning When a Loved One is Ill
Power of Attorney for Assets
Wills
Trusts
Steps to Take
Joint Tenancy
The Family Fight
Pauline’s Journey
Guardianship Overview
Exploitation
What to Do Following a Death
The Probate Process
Trust Administration
Conclusion
Appendix 1: Guide to the Family Meeting
Appendix 2: Community Resource Guide
Suggested Reading
Index
About the Authors