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Nature's Wild

Love, Sex, and Law in the Caribbean

Andil Gosine

Duke University Press, 2021

In Nature's Wild, Andil Gosine engages with questions of humanism, queer theory, and animality to examine and revise understandings of queer desire in the Caribbean. Surveying colonial law, visual art practices, and contemporary activism, Gosine shows how the very concept of homosexuality in the Caribbean (and in the Americas more broadly) has been overdetermined by a colonially influenced human/animal divide. Gosine refutes this presupposed binary and embraces animality through a series of case studies: a homoerotic game called puhngah, the institution of gender-based dress codes in Guyana, and efforts toward the decriminalization of sodomy in Trinidad and Tobago—including the work of famed activist Colin Robinson, paintings of human animality by Guadeloupean artist Kelly Sinnapah Mary, and Gosine's own artistic practice. In so doing, he troubles the ways in which individual and collective anxieties about “wild natures” have shaped the existence of Caribbean people while calling for a reassessment of what political liberation might look like.

Duke University Press Scholars of Color First Book Award recipient
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No One Really Knows Me

Helping Young Men Find Connection, Love, and Purpose

Michael C. Reichert and Gary Barker

University of Chicago Press, 2027

Counters common and harmful myths about manhood today and offers recommendations for what young men really need as they mature.

From the “manosphere” and LooksMaxxers to Proud Boys, it increasingly feels these days like the kids—particularly the boys—are not all right. Social expectations around what masculinity means are in flux, while algorithms push out misogynist content with no regard for its radicalizing effects. In 2023 and again in 2025, a representative survey of 2,000 American men aged 18-23 found that over two-thirds agreed with the statement: “No one really knows me.” This dramatic finding revealed the failure of American boyhood to account for young men’s full humanity and equip them with the skills, relationships, and support needed for success in these modern times. 

In No One Really Knows Me, psychologists Michael C. Reichert and Gary Barker seek to uncover the root causes of and solutions to our contemporary crisis of masculinity. Based on single and group interviews and a wealth of survey data, including their own national survey of 2,000 men ages 18 to 45 from a broad range of economic, racial, and social backgrounds, their findings were clear: across the board, men are struggling to build the social networks they desperately need for health and success. Underlying this failure is a set of historic, pernicious myths that continue to dominate boyhood and shape the imaginations of boys in families, schools, and relationships. Reichert and Barker use each chapter to highlight one myth of masculinity, offer data from their own research and practice to debunk it, and then present life-changing, evidence-based alternatives. 

Young men today are in quite a different position than they were a generation ago. As he emerges from boyhood on his way to manhood, each young man needs to be grounded in emotionally open connections, deep relationships with people who have his back, and opportunities to engage with purpose. This book shows us how we can provide young men with surer footing for their passage to adulthood. 

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Notes for a Young Gentleman

Toby Litt

Seagull Books, 2017

Toby Litt is one of that rare breed of fiction writers who never writes the same book twice: every time out, he takes an unexpected new tack—and his readers happily follow.

​Told in the form of the pithy, even lyrical advice a young soldier leaves behind after a mission gone wrong, Notes for a Young Gentleman is no exception. Its brilliantly creative form, and the epigrammatic genius Litt displays in its creation, nonetheless can’t hide the powerful, emotional story at its heart: of a young soldier parachuting toward a beautiful, moonlit country house on a mission . . . of betrayal. The house? Marlborough. The target? Winston Churchill, an old friend of his father. A brilliant, at times dizzying but always heartfelt exploration of love, revenge, and the essence of a gentleman, Notes for a Young Gentleman is classic Toby Litt: wholly new and wholly unforgettable.
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