Introduction
Part I: Questioning Love, Marriage, & the Couple
Chapter 1: Name-Calling
Margaret D. Stetz
Chapter 2: I Now Pronounce You…Whatever You Two Are
Susan Ostrov Weisser
Chapter 3: Reality TV, Wedding Fantasies, and Actual Reality Collide
Sarah Tucker Jenkins
Chapter 4: Not Drowning but Waving
Beverley Stevens
Chapter 5: Marriage Might Be Work, But It’s a Cushy Desk Job Compared to Being Single
Sara Eckel
Chapter 6: Dancing in a Precarious World
Ana Tager
Chapter 7: My Father’s Alzheimer’s Romance
Stephanie Golden
Part II: Alternative Living Arrangements
Chapter 8: Spelling Bee Love
Mimi Schwartz
Chapter 9: Happily Ever After …
Helle Trap Friis
Chapter 10: I Want You Here Always. I Can’t Live Without You. Now, Please Go Home
Jaime Teich and Chris Nellen
Chapter 11: Our Big, Strange Long-Distance Romance
Mindy Lewis
Chapter 12: A Bicoastal Relationship
Jon Bagdon
Chapter 13: Hundred Mile Marriage
Penelope Scambly Schott
Chapter 14: Margaret Mead and the In Between
D. D. Wood
Chapter 15: A Ten-Year Odyssey
Lisa Gioia-Acres
Chapter 16: Our Pick-Me-Up-From-a-Colonoscopy List
Leah Sherman
Chapter 17: The Evolving Landscape of Platonic Marriages
Pamela Pitman Brown
Chapter 18: What We Gained and What We Lost: Politics, Partners, and Community
Vicki Breitbart
Part III: Alternative Loving Arrangements
Chapter 19: The Golden Girls House: Building Our Own Queer Family
Renee Romanowsky
Chapter 20: Loving the Past, Loving the Present: Polyamory and the Space for Both
Kelli S. Dunham
Chapter 21: This is My Grandmother’s Non-Monogamy
Crystal Byrd Farmer
Chapter 22: No One Is Born Knowing:The Myth of Exclusivity
Mari Carmen Diaz Piñar and E. Rafael Jacobs-Perez
Chapter 23: The Bobby Pin
Alex Alberto
Chapter 24: Relationship Anarchy
Tierney Senne
Chapter 25: The Space Between Us Remains the Same (A Long-Lasting, Long-Distance Love Story Spanning Continents & Decades)
Max Sharam
Chapter 26: Fifth Transition
Helen Boyd
Chapter 27: Making Up the Rules as We Go
Ariela E. Rosa
Chapter 28: Highly Sexed: Stages of (Non)Monogamy and (Non)Authentic Living
Paige Averett
Chapter 29: Stunning
Ronald E. Hellman
Acknowledgements
Notes on Contributors